The Man They Wanted Me to Be

The Man They Wanted Me to Be is a thought-provoking memoir and cultural analysis that explores the origins and impacts of toxic masculinity in modern America. Jared Yates Sexton reflects on his working-class roots while examining how societal shifts, political developments, and outdated notions of manhood have contributed to issues like misogyny, depression, and societal inequality. Richly researched and deeply personal, the book questions the traditional roles assigned to men and highlights the risks of rigid gender expectations.