Built, Not Found

Built, Not Found challenges the romantic ideals surrounding marriage, emphasizing that lasting relationships are built through deliberate skill development and everyday choices. Drawing on extensive research from experts like John Gottman and Mary Ainsworth, the book explores key areas such as communication, emotional consistency, and relationship patterns that can be learned and improved. Suitable for those preparing for marriage, already married couples, or anyone seeking to understand relationship dynamics, it offers a practical, research-based guide to creating a lasting partnership.